There is a particular kind of woman who has spent most of her adult life being known for her capacity. She remembers everything. She gets things done. She walks into chaos and creates order. She manages the meeting, remembers the deadline, solves the problem, takes care of everybody else, and somehow keeps ten things moving at once. People call her when something needs to happen. And for years, she has made it happen. Then somewhere in her late 30s to mid 40s, something feels